“Do not look forward to what might happen tomorrow: The same God who cares for you today will take care of you and yours tomorrow and everyday. Either God will shield you from suffering or God will give you unfailing strength to bear it. Be at peace then and put aside all anxious thoughts and imaginations.” St Francis Desales
Most of us are playing hurt. In one way or another. One day or another.
Last year, I played “excruciatingly hurt” when our oldest son, Nick, was diagnosed with leukemia. The news came as it almost always does: out of nowhere. A strapping seventeen-year-old starter on the varsity soccer team at his high school, he complained of a sore throat and general feelings of fatigue. Just a couple months before, he was surfing and working on a mission trip in Costa Rica. His year of intense chemo treatments was unlike anything we had imagined could hit our perfect family. Leukemia? Childhood cancer? The Make-A-Wish Foundation? Those were phrases used by other families. Not by ours. We were different. Immune.
Hardly. Personal tragedy, pain and suffering are all part of the human equation. They do not discriminate. Your accomplishment in the world’s eyes, your power, your status, your wealth, your educational level…and your spiritual maturity…do not isolate you from pain and it’s inherent suffering. It will come out of nowhere, catch you completely by surprise and inevitably find the stuff of which you are made.
All of us will play hurt. It's not the playing hurt that separates us from the rest; it's how we choose to play when we play hurt.
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